Have things been piling up – internally or externally? Looking to finally tackle the clutter? Want a few new tips on organizing? No matter your thoughts on sparking joy, there is something inside Marie Kondo’s books for everyone. Just like most things in life, moderation is key. And Ms. Kondo understands that, too. Spark Joy by Marie Kondo [Library, Hardcover, 2016] The Life-changing Manga of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo [Library, Paperback, 2017] Joy at Work by Marie Kondo and Scott Sonenshein [Library, Hardcover, 2020] Of course, we have all heard of how Ms. Kondo has “given up on tidying” (hello, 3 kids). But if you think about it, she’s re-imagined what your “ideal lifestyle” looks like right now. Isn’t that what it is all about? Doing what fits, at the time? How do you organize all of your things (or your time spent on things) in the best possible way for you? Plus, even prior to kids, Ms. Kondo understood that it is always more about emotions than the things themselves. Taking the time to visualize what you want out of your personal or professional space and arranging it to fit your ideal lifestyle. Then you can keep the momentum going when you do get discouraged or leave the guilt of not cleaning behind. In all the books, she outlines a clear process for tackling all areas of your closet, living spaces, and mementos (Spark Joy and The Life-changing Manga of Tidying Up), as well as workspaces (Joy at Work) that takes things in stages. Yes, when you are working on one area, it is important (and helpful in the long run) to do EVERYTHING in that area at once. But you aren’t doing EVERY area all at once. For me, the biggest ah-ha moment comes with the folding techniques. Oh, how nicely things can be folded! It’s not hard, might take a couple more steps (depending on what you already do), but it is so satisfying. I did like the ease of learning through a story in The Life-changing Manga of Tidying Up and read that book completely. For the other two, I didn’t read the books in chapter order. I would go to a section that I was working on (socks, personal care items, closet) to get the details, then complete my tidy-up process. I’d recommend starting with The Life-changing Manga of Tidying Up to ease into it this new lifestyle idea and add the other two books as you want to take your efforts further. Remember – it will be a journey. You won’t be done in one day. [To be honest, I still have a few items to take care of on the “work” side of things. Digital clean-up is hard!] Don’t forget – your ideal lifestyle, and what you want to focus on, will adjust as you grow and change. #konmari #mariekondo #sparkjoy #konmarimethod
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Book Review: Purpose by Gina Bianchini
Purpose: Design a Community and Change Your Life—A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Your Purpose and Making It Matter by Gina BianchiniOnlineBookClub.org | Kindle from Amazon⭐⭐⭐ 3 out of 5 stars You might call me a sucker for a good self-help book. I was excited to read Gina Bianchini’s book Purpose. Everything unspoken was said in that first word – I was going to be able to find my Purpose (with a capital P). Of course, I know that one book won’t solve it all and it really is a journey. Yet, maybe this one would get me down the path a bit farther. I also have to admit, I didn’t pay much attention to the rest of the title, Design a Community and Change Your Life—A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Your Purpose and Making It Matter. It might have helped manage my expectations if I did. (I’m always griping about how no one reads anymore …) In Purpose, Bianchini starts out by offering a 30-day pathway that to help the reader find their purpose(s) and turn it into actionable steps to pursue. I loved how she highlighted that there isn’t only ONE purpose in your life. She points out that the goal is to create a broader vision and work at clarifying the big ideas into actionable steps. Then in the second part of the book, she dives into what her new social community-building platform, Mighty Networks, offers and how it can help you bring your purpose to life in the digital sphere. There it was, the stuff I wasn’t expecting so close to the front of the book. I was initially intrigued by the prospect of an engaging, supportive online community that lifts people up in a way that Bianchini claims Mighty Networks provides. In fact, I’m attempting to discover if I can find that on my own. However, too much of the book was devoted to basically a commercial for Mighty Networks. I did find the questions for the future story and the Purpose 30 practice to be thought-provoking and insightful. To be honest, I personally had trouble consistently following Bianchini’s plan. I am using her questions to help me look at what my purpose could be, and not only for the short-term, but visioning long-term. In short, if you are interested in a different view on how to look at what to do with your life, Purpose by Gina Bianchini does just that. It can complement the many other similar books by other authors on finding your purpose.